Admiration commands reciprocation

When one person admires another person, there clearly come into picture two parties. Both of
them similarly made of flesh and blood, and with independent rational minds. For whatever
reason when one person admires the other and does so continuously he/she begins to
anticipate reciprocation from the other person. And if such reciprocation doesn't happen in
a reasonable duration, with very high probability the admirer begins to feel sick of what he
is doing. Long learnt philosophies like admiration is all-giving and never seeking anything
in return do come to some rescue, but only for a short span of time. If the reciprocation
doesn't come even then, such philosophical bindings too would wither apart. Critical and to
some extent cynical thoughts like questions of being ignored, being treated as inferior come
to occupy the mind naturally. After all, none in this present day world fancies being
subdued by others, how much ever near and dear they may be. As a consequence levels of
admiration drop, the specialness associated dwindles and emotions subside to the normal
levels when admirer knew the admired only as yet another fellow human being. If the admiration itself is quite obvious and trivial, then of course its foolish to reciprocate; Aish can't reply back all her fans' letters. But if it appears special and worthy, watch out all you people being admired, before your admirer begins to put his/her grey cells to work.